Nara Smith never drives or touches the trash thanks to Lucky Blue’s household rules

25 August 2025

Nara Smith and Lucky Blue Smith have crafted a marriage defined by unexpectedly intimate routines and gentle boundaries that emerge when two creative spirits chart life together on their own terms. In a TikTok video that feels both confessional and playful, the influencer Nara laid bare some of the “unspoken rules” of their household, revealing, with a mix of amusement and sincerity, that she never drives when Lucky is around, never pumps her own gas, and never touches the trash. Their youngest child is on the way, and already the blueprint of their partnership is clear: he handles the logistical tasks, gas tanks, garbage, dishes while she orchestrates the culinary and daily rhythms.

Lucky Blue, ever the driving force quite literally says with a wry shake of his head that he “really gets bothered when I see girls driving a guy.” Nara gently confirms that she “doesn’t even attempt to get in the driver’s side,” the smile in her voice softening what might sound at first like an outdated cliché. For him these tasks feel obvious, almost sacred in their simplicity. She says she probably “hasn’t pumped gas in years, unless I’m alone.” Together they find harmony in this division of small but significant daily duties.

Inside their home this choreography continues, with Nara taking extra care to ensure Lucky experiences joy even in the mundane. She’ll scan a restaurant’s menu ahead of time to make sure there are dishes he’ll like and choose for him, sparing him the need to scrutinize options on the spot. She never runs out of his favorite hot sauce, nor includes vegetables in a salad that he dislikes. Meanwhile Lucky embraces wet dishes and dishcloths, responding that since Nara cooks beautiful meals, it is only right that he manages cleaning up after.

When it comes to their children, their collaboration takes on a fatherly twist—Lucky is in charge of styling their kids’ hair unless a more elaborate updo is called for. Nara jokes that he is “very particular,” yet that seems to perfectly reflect the playful but purposeful dance they’ve created around their household. Another small but telling habit: when entering a building or room together, she walks on his left so he can open the door for her. It’s a gesture that feels simultaneously timeless and deeply respectful.

The video isn’t just tour of odd little rules. It is a testament to the couple’s comfort in defining their life together in ways that work for them not for society’s expectations or labels. Nara, thirty years younger than many might expect for a mother of three, stands unapologetic in her identity as a full-time working mother whose passion is cooking. She has pushed back against being labeled a “tradwife,” asserting that she is anything but trapped in the kitchen and that she splits their life responsibilities nearly fifty‑fifty.

Their love story arched in fast‑forward meeting in 2019 in Milan led to engagement soon after, marriage in early 2020, and three children within just a few years. Now, as they prepare for their fourth, the routines they’ve built feel less like constraints and more like rhythms that keep their world graceful and grounded.

Plenty of couples would find the idea of one person never dragging the trash out or pushing the car across a fifty-dollar pump oddly archaic. But in the Smith household it feels like poetry small everyday rituals that carve space for creativity, calm, and mutual care. Nara’s attention to detail in the kitchen, in pampering him with sauces and meal decisions, complements Lucky’s quiet mastery of errands. Each fills the gaps the other wouldn’t or couldn’t mind.

In choosing this arrangement, this gentle balancing of roles, they make a personal manifesto: partnership isn’t about equal tasks, but about what feels right. It’s beauty rendered in the everyday. And as they continue to grow their family, these rituals menus scanned, dishes washed, hair styled, doors held open may well anchor them as much as their love ever does.